Sure Signs She Will Cheat On You

Men want to know if there’s any way to tell if the woman they are dating or married to will cheat on them at a future date and one day break their heart.

Women who are highly susceptible to infidelity tend to fall into one or more of the 16 categories below:

Categories of Women Most Likely To Cheat

Women who have lots of close male friends - Close friendships with members of the opposite séx are a common starting point for many affairs. The closer the woman is to her platonic male friend, the more likely it is that he will eventually end up becoming her lover – unless he’s gay. 

Women who have an excessive need for attention - a woman who requires constant attention may cheat on her mate if she feels she isn’t getting enough attention from him. She will be easy prey for any man who showers with her the attention she feels she deserves. 

Women who are materialistic - a materialistic woman is likely to have an affair with a wealthy man because of the material things he can provide. She can easily be seduced with gifts of money, jewelry, designer clothes, lavish vacations, and other expensive things.

Women who are easily bored - a woman who is easily bored may cheat on her mate just to add some excitement to her life, or alleviate her boredom. 

Women whose husbands or boyfriends have cheated on them – Some women who have been victims of infidelity may indulge in retaliatory cheating or revenge affairs. If you cheated on her, she may try to even the score by cheating on you.

Women whose girlfriends are cheating on their mates - never underestimate the power of peer pressure. Adults are susceptible to peer pressure, too. If her girlfriends or close female acquaintances are cheating on their mates, it’s just a matter of time before she be cheating too.

Women who thrive on being the center of attention - a woman who insists on being the center of attention at all times, the man who fawns over her and makes her feel like she’s #1 in his life is likely to score big.

Women who are alcoholics or drug addicts – a woman who is a substance abuser is much more likely to end up cheating on her mate. Women who overindulges in alcohol are susceptible to infidelity because their inhibitions will be lowered and their judgment impaired. Female drug addict may sell their bodies for drugs. Either type of woman is likely to cheat without realizing what she’s doing. 

Women who are considered “party girls” - if she’s the type of woman who runs with a fast crowd, or routinely parties or hangs out until the wee hours of the night, her lifestyle makes her vulnerable to having an affair.

Women who are addicted to séx - Yes, women can be séx addicts, too. In the past these women were referred to as nymphomaniacs. This is a medical condition that requires medical help.

Women with a séx drive greater than that of their partner - a woman whose séx drive greatly exceeds the séx drive of her husband or boyfriend, or whose spouse or significant other is lacking in bedroom skills, is much more likely to cheat on her mate. If she wants to have séx all the time, she’ll find someone to fill in when her husband or boyfriend isn’t there.

Women who are séxually experienced - a woman who has had an extremely active séx life, or who has had numerous séx partners before settling down, will find very difficult to stay faithful to just .one man.

Women who cheated on their mates in the past without getting caught - a woman who has cheated before and got away with it will have no qualms about cheating on her mate again, or cheating on the new man in her life. After all, she’s already proven to herself that she can escape detection, and will be confident that she can pull it off again without getting caught.

Women who are thrill seekers or risk takers - this type of woman will cheat just for the thrill of it, or for the excitement of doing something forbidden. She views infidelity as other people would view a high-risk sport.

Women who have big egos - if a woman is extremely égotistic, any man who feeds her ego can easily get her into bed.

Women who suffer from low self esteem - a woman who has low-self esteem is easy prey for a man who flatters her, builds her up, makes her feel good about herself, and boosts her self esteem.

The more of the above categories your wife or girlfriend fits into, the more likely it is that she will cheat on you.

29/10/2013 Share Ladies, Here Are The Real Things Guys Want From You

It is true that men generally have great expectations from their ideal women – there are some unique features and attributes he desires and some others he cannot tolerate or withstand.

It is also true that as men are different, so are their preferences for their women. Some men like independent women who are very ambitious; some prefers women with good character, while others simply want women who can satisfy them sexually.

Here are things men desires from their women: 

Adewole Okesina wants his woman to be presentable and one that possesses a good home training.

He said "She should know how to relate with people and always respect me in the presence of others. She should be ready to face anything that comes our way whether good or bad." For ladies who do not know how to cook, Okesina will not consider.

Hear him: "She must be a good cook and let me know whenever she is offended so there won’t be quarrels."

Having been married for years, Mr. Femi Dada is of the opinion that men prefer women that will care for them anytime. Apart from being caring, Dada wants his woman to “be God fearing, decent and neat. She should always take care of her environment.”

According to Dada, men are faced with challenges at work and then come home feeling bothered wanting to share with their spouse.

He urged a woman that has a listening ear to listen to whatever bothers her husband so he can be relieved, “A woman that will take me for who I am and accommodate my shortcomings is what I need. An unselfish woman that values children and one that will care for my extended family. Not just someone that will say ‘I and my husband alone,” he added.Not ruling out the spiritual aspect to relationships, Dada advises husbands and wives to have the love and fear for God.

Like Dada, Mr. Henry Mgbeme wants a woman that is caring and supportive. A woman who will not depend on him for everything she needs nor engage in worldly activities.

For Mgbeme, he wants a modest woman. “I prefer her simple and modest – I would not like my woman to use jewellery.” Going the African tradition, Mr. Atumeyi Uwanni, a married man for years, prefer a woman well nurtured in her traditions and must not be canal. This he says is a typical African woman.

Speaking further, Uwanni said “A man can be flirt, known to the woman but she can absorb and manage. But no man can manage the flirt character of a woman.

Also, Uwanni, frowns at women with low hygiene manners. He advised that such a woman should strive to imbibe healthy lifestyle. Uwanni was also of the view that, “A woman should be good in all ramifications.”

For those women who do not exhibit good character, he advised that such a woman should read the last chapter of the Book of Proverbs as a guideline to managing her home.

To him, "Marriage is friendship. Friendship is companionship. Companionship is what a man looks out for in a woman. If there is no relationship, there is no fellowship. The relationship between spouses metamorphoses into fellowship.”

For nagging and callous women, Uwanni says such persons are not welcome by men. Such women, he says will not welcome a man’s ‘people’ and friends into his house. Uwanni therefore proposes for love in a relationship. This he says covers a multitude of sin. Love, he pointed out, should not be only in bed but also outside bed.

On his part, Henry Ose wants a sincere woman that he can trust anywhere, anytime and any day.
He said “Women can fool men to the brim if they want to. A girl giving her body doesn’t guarantee her love for you. She might as well be fooling you. I don’t want a woman that will still have feelings for her ex-lover because she would never want to let him go,” Ose added.

Reeling what he wants in a woman, Lanre Bello said that he wants one from a good background, Christian with a good behavior that can accommodate his friends and people.

Bello did not also fail to mention that his ideal woman “must be a good cook and be very good in bed. For, if she is an amateur, then it’s going to be hell for the man.”

Dami Israel Ojo wants a woman of good character. To him: “It is not all about the beauty or make-up. The good character is the beauty of a woman and this is what will stand the test of time when the beauty would have gone. This is what builds up a good family.”

Ojo also craves for a woman that is very understanding, “I want a woman with understanding. She should understand my type of person, for I am a very stubborn and aggressive type.”

Think you know all there is to know about picking up women?

Think you know all there is to know about picking up women?
You will be surprised at these 8 mistakes most men make when trying to approach a woman they like.
1. Starting Out On The Defensive
Ironically, the mistake a lot of men make when it comes to approaching women simply fearing the worst. This isn’t always true (at all), but once you start believing it is you’ll immediately be on the backfoot, trying to think of solutions to problems that really, haven’t even arisen. The last thing you want to do is see any woman as a ‘challenge’ or as though you need to learn any ‘tricks‘ to persuade potential partners to talk to you. Doing this will be what puts women off, not the things you were initially worried about. Forget what you’ve heard, approaching a woman is not about game-playing. Women will always rather get to know a friendly guy who means what he says than someone who’s trying to play it cool.
2. Wrong Place:
Everywhere you go is not a pick up zone -- you have to thoughtfully work out where you can actually approach women you don’t know. There is no point striking up conversation with a potential partner if they are already in a situation where they don’t feel like flirting: you’re dooming yourself to failure. For instance, t’s a safe bet to stick to bars, when women are more often than not feeling their best and already in the mood for socialising and open to getting to know people. The buzzy atmosphere of a bar also means that you can casually make conversation with less fear of rejection. Pick the right place where you know she isn't feeling stressed out or busy.
3. Not Being sensitive to the situation: Sometimes, women just want to go out drinking and dancing. So seeing girl out having a good time does not necessarily mean they want to be approached by men. Be prepared that chances are that most people won’t be that interested in hanging out with strangers when they’re out to have a laugh with their mates. And if you get the vibe that you’ve interrupted a night that you’re not welcome on (if she’s not continuing the conversation, if she’s more interested in her friends) then just amicably excuse yourself to the bar and carry on with your night.
4. Being too drunk:
Being with a man who is in control is important to women. Women don't want to be with a guy we have to force feed water during a night out, help go to the loo or keep from getting into fights at the bar. You're also way more to get distracted from the woman you're trying to talk to by other women, slur your words and just be generally unapologetic and annoying. Until you're well into a relationship, avoid getting too drunk.
5.Using Pick-up Lines:
Sorry, guys, but everything you've learned about using pickup lines to start a conversation with women is dead wrong. There is nothing cheesier, less interesting or more of a turnoff than a guy who uses a standard opening line. Why? It shows he lacks confidence, period. It shows he's literally spent time reading up on the best way to approach a woman and that he needs other guys to tell him what to say and how to act. Whatever you do, a simple hello is better than a bad line.
6. Not Asking Direct Questions
The worst thing a guy can do is come up to us and talk about himself for the entirety of the conversation. If you have to talk about how amazing you are, it's probably because you're not. Asking questions about her life shows you're a considerate guy, and there's more of a chance we'll feel a connection -- which will make it much easier to get a date.
7. Being Too Touchy
As a general rule -- whether its approaching a woman you don’t yet know, or progressing things further once you make it to the bedroom, just echo the movements she makes towards you. Wait for her to make the move to make contact with you, and then do that too. Build up to different parts of the body, but do it following this routine. But regardless, don’t do this in the supermarket because although you might be getting good vibes from your partner in crime, you will creep out the other shoppers.
8. Concentrating Too Much On Her, Not You

Often, a guy will concentrate too much on what a woman's reaction to him is rather than on the conversation taking place. If you're overthinking what you're supposed to say and where your hands are supposed to be (in your pockets? By your sides?), she'll know. And it will get awkward. If anything, try thinking of approaching a woman as starting a conversation with a good friend -- be casual about it, be a good listener and let her talk. Another way to think about it: If it works out you'll gain a date. If it doesn't, what are you really losing?